You see so much about human character and how important our efforts to find cures and raise money for patient support really are. Many people will not look at you in the eyes, and others will completely ignore you. Don't despair, and don't judge. The economy isn't great and people in Ann Arbor are constantly asked for money on the street by other Relay for Lifers, the homeless, and countless other organizations.
The next group of people are the ones that acknowledge you and either say good luck or explain that they don't carry cash. You thank them anyways, and always have a smile, because they might remember you and give in the future to somebody.
Last, there are those who actually donate. Nobody does this wanting anything other than a thank you, and some are even embarrassed when you express your gratitude. Many just walk by and put a dollar or some change into your purple bucket. Others put in a few dollars since they just got out of a store or feel extra gracious that day. Then there are others who "make you work for it". They ask who you are and what you are doing, to ensure their money is going towards a noble cause. When I say, "We're raising money for cancer research.", I have never had anybody close their wallet. The last group is the people who had, or have, or lost somebody to cancer. This group is so gracious for what we are doing. These people put a face to the efforts we are putting forth, and encourage us, as our efforts also give them hope.
So, if you've never bucketed, do so. Run a little psychology experiment of your own design. Go out and talk to strangers for a cause. Get to see and actually meet some of the people that we are doing this for.
Matthew Lewis
PharmD Candidate Class of 2012
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